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Why would they say “you are too good for me”?

You are too good for me means ‘I am too bad for you’ or ‘I do not deserve you’

It is an ugly compliment to receive because what it means is that you are not what they were hoping for.

You are too good for me means:

I am not looking for a committed relationship, but since you seem like you are, I may have to play along to have my cake and eat it too.

I am only looking to get laid and it does not seem like you are that kind of a girl.

I do not like you as much as you think I do. We have no future.

I am a sore loser and a complete disappointment. I lied about my income, my penis size, my status, and other things. I am scared and it will be just a matter of time before the truth is discovered and I get dumped.

I have emotional and mental issues and I am too insecure to date such a woman like you.

They are not who you think they are. They are an iceberg man with hidden intentions and thoughts under dark muddy water. Treating them nice disturbs the mud which then spills out in the ‘you are too good for me’ form.

Yep, nice treatment makes them feel uncomfortable and guilty.

So basically, yes, with all the cards on the table, you are too good for them indeed and you do not need them.

P.S. If you feel like you need to talk to someone because your situation is too unique and most of the stuff you read on the internet is too generic and not helpful, then I would personally like to recommend you this affordable online counseling service. You will not be disappointed.

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When he sends you an unsolicited dick pic

A guy who sends you an unsolicited dick pic is nothing more than a sneaky fisherman casting a net over large territory of the ocean hoping to catch a dumb fish. Desperate and needy, he will stand there day and night, staring into the horizon of daily sunrises and sunsets, praying to god:

“Oh God, don’t let me wait for too long, I am getting impatient. Please send me a dumb fish of my dreams: the fish who is not demanding and does not ask any questions; the fish who always agrees and does as I say. I strongly prefer a sea-horse though. Frequent horsey rides are my favorites! My soul is in need of a pussy on demand and I would like you to grant me that wish”

His hands are strong and his eyes are vigilant. Holding the bait for what seems like eternity is not easy, but giving up is not an option either.

He does not want to miss an opportunity ‘to get some’ and so he stands. He is ready to wait for a long time because he knows that if he waits long enough something will eventually come up.

If you are a woman who received an unsolicited dick pic ask yourself this: Are you a dumb sea-horse?

When they send you an unsolicited dick pic, they show you who they are. And when they show you who they are – believe them!

A guy, looking for a girlfriend, will never start a relationship with dick pics. On the other hand, a guy looking for sex or someone who is just a moron will send a dick pic.

With this being said, I say be a foxy lady and do not make any demands or disclaimers on your dating profile (like ‘no dick pics’ please). Let those fishing morons show their true colors.

By being upfront and asking not to send dick pics you are making it easy for them to trick your mind and heart. Wouldn’t you rather know who they are from the start?

Imagine rejecting someone and having doubts about it. In this case – there won’t be any doubts. And this is what you want.

A dick pic is a substitute for romance. You either get a dick pic or romance. Romance and unsolicited dick pics are not compatible.

You are either a dumb sea-horse or a Lady!

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