Don’t be mad when she says ‘My biological clock is ticking’

As you may (hopefully) know, unlike you guys, women have a very limited time frame to produce offspring. To be precise, this frame spans from her teens into her mid-40s.

Now, we all know that neither teens nor women in their 40s are exactly the best candidates for a healthy pregnancy.

During her teens, a woman is still growing and her body is still developing. Pregnancy would take a big toll on such a woman. I am not even talking about her level of emotional maturity.

For women in their 40s, the problem exists as well. Many women enter perimenopause at this age. This is when hormones start fluctuating, periods become irregular, and conceiving a healthy baby becomes an issue.

So, with this being said we now see how the actual time frame to produce an offspring starts shrinking. It is not from her ‘teens to 40s’ anymore. It is more like from her 20s into the late 30s.

And now let's not forget the fact that many women want to get an education and get established financially. The latest stats show that over 50% of American women have a college degree!

This fact shrinks her time frame even more. It now stands from her late 20s into the late 30s.

Considering that fertility starts declining after 35, you now can imagine that a woman who wants to have a family will be pressured to get married and have a baby when she is in her late 20s or early 30s. What time frame is it? It is even less than 10 years! And if she wants to have more than one baby then the pressure is enormous.

Think about it. If you take the average lifespan of a woman in USA – 80 years, then of those years she has less than 10 years to produce a baby or babies. That’s about 10% of her entire lifespan.

This is drastically different for males. Males are fertile into their 70s and beyond.

As you can see now, the biological clock does exist and it keeps ticking for every woman. It is a real thing!

Every woman is aware of it. Imagine her situation: she has less than 10 years to date, to go through some breakups and heal, to date again, to find a mate, to get married, and to produce a baby.

Unlike you males, she has zero luxury to wait. She has no time to wait because her biological clock is ticking, and she has no control over it.

Yes, there are women who wait until their 40s to have children, those who have babies in their 50s, or when they are 16. But come on now, we both know that these cases are not normal and not ordinary.

What you should do:

Many guys misrepresent themselves during dating and lie to women about their intentions during relationships. It is absolutely shitty to waste a woman’s time and it is absolutely shitty to pretend like you are serious about committing to her (if you are not)

When you meet a woman who states that she wants to get married and to have children and IF you are not up to it, you need to let her go. Do not waste a woman’s time. She has a biological need to satisfy. Her body has a very short time frame to produce a baby.

Many of you guys complain about women ‘rushing things'. Well, we have no choice. If you are not on the same page with us, we do not waste our time and move on. This is especially true for women who are approaching the end of their time frame (mid-30s +). They are running out of time, and it makes them panicky.

Some women have gynecological problems. Those problems (whether treatable or not treatable) can affect fertility. Some of these issues need to be addressed rather sooner than later and these things may directly affect her ability to conceive or carry to term. Do not expect her to explain to you all this. All you need to know is that if a woman is rushing into commitment and is eager to start a family, there is a reason for this.

We women need to do a better job at identifying and leaving time wasters. We tend to get attached and waste years on a man who is not willing to give us more. This is a very sad situation because I get the other side too.

Again, to summarize all of the above:

~ Do not get mad at women who talk about their biological clock.

~ When dating, please make sure she is not looking to get married and start a family.

~ If she does – get out immediately (provided you do not want the same) and do not waste her time. There are plenty of women out there who do not want to have babies and are not looking to get married. You just need to be with your partner on the same page. It is only fair, you know.

Think about it this way: if you were to sign a deal with a business partner you would not want them to mislead you in some way or hide potential deal-breakers. This would be considered a fraud and a scam. Misleading a woman makes you a scam.

If all you want is just ‘fun’, then date only those who do not want to reproduce and stay away from those who do.

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